We never want to give up on a relationship we have hope that maybe one day it will be better then yesterday better then a year ago.

Especially when kids are involve we tend to hold onto a relationship as long as we can even if it’s breaking us into pieces in the inside.

But sometime we need to realize that even though we are hurting inside and think we are only damaging ourselves our body and mind, in reality we are damaging our own kids by living each and every bad scenario over and over.

See I’ve been with my kids father for more then 12 years now. We’ve officially separated twice, one for more then a year and another for 2 months. In which both times during our separations we both showed our true colors.

And see the thing is that today 12 years later our relationship has just gotten worse and worse. We’ve both lost each other in many ways and we both are holding onto each other by our pinky refuse to let go of each other because we’re scared to move on without each other.

Thanks for joining me!

Good company in a journey makes the way seem shorter. — Izaak Walton